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Rachel's Progress
Information will be posted here daily to update everyone on Rachel's condition.
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12/16/09
Okay, I know that I said I was only going to write one more entry, but of course I have accomplished something wonderful that I MUST share with you....yesterday was the first day that I did not take norco (the narcotic I have been on since the accident), only IBprofine. That is so exciting to me. Now that doesn't mean I won't ever take a half of norco when I feel that I need it, but at least I know that I don't have to take it and I was okay without it. And our original goal was being completely off of it at 6 months after the accident. It is a wonderful feeling!
-Rachel
12/12/09
I had a dear friend enlighten me that I have not written in the blog in a while, thank you Mary. I'm doing okay. Dad and I took the motor home to northern California and we are visiting some good friends. Mom and Joe fly up tonight and we are going to spend the first night of Hanukkah up here. We go back home Sunday to celebrate with our family  I love presents.
On some days I am down to taking a 1/2 a Norco a day, which is equivalent to one vicaden. But on days like today I either take 1-1/2 or I am not active at all, like stay in bed all day. I am doing well on almost not taking any on a regular basis.
Joe and I went to therapy and she said that there wasn't a couples counseling need. Everything we are experiencing is completely normal after a situation such as ours. I saw her one more time a week ago and we really didn't have anything to talk about. Joe and my relationship is so much more connected than we had ever been. And I told him just last night that I think this accident has made him a better man. He said "I try."
I am standing while I shower. I still keep the transfer bench in the tub just in case I feel the need to use it.
Joe and I are going home to New York for Christmas. I can't wait to see his family, especially his parents. I love them so much. They have been so supportive and amazing through this.
Dad and I have decided we are going to close the blog. Closer to the end of this year he is going to write an entry and I will write an entry, at the same time so we don't see each others entries....you know what this means right, now we will have to talk through email and you will have to write something instead of just reading
Do you know that we are at 6 months since the accident. It's totally unbelievable. I will talk to you again soon.
-Rachel
12/01/09
I successfully made it to my parents house. I definitely cried when I got there, out of joy for making it. I haven't driven since, but I know that I can....if I must...
Every day is a blessing. Even if it's not the best day ever. I really believe that. Although when I was being evaluated in the hospital a therapist said that during times like these a lot of negotiating with God happens. I am really lucky not to have negotiated. Who knows what I would have said. It probably would have been a lot to live up to.
I have PT today and my body is NOT feeling so great. I hope it goes okay.
-Rachel
11/29/09
Today is my Mom's birthday. She would tell you that she is 65 because she looks good for that age. She is definitely not 65...not even close...maybe she secretly wants to retire. Plus she never dyed her hair!!! I hope this hasn't sent me shy from not getting grey like her
I drove for the first time. :O it went okay. Joe was so wonderful to be my passenger. I have driven twice for a couple of miles with a passenger. I am going to drive by myself this morning. I am going to go from my house to my parents to hang out with Mom. I can still picture the guy coming at me. The flashbacks have been happening WAY to often if you ask me.
I'm going to leave now...a little nervous but I am ready to do this.
-Rachel
11/19/09
 Mom and I definitely won't get H1N1 for sure I know...you're excited about it.
Wish me luck on this plane. I only had one anxiety attack before anyone got on the plane, so we're good...
...We made it safely. My pain and swelling is minimal. Probably the best anyone would have expected. I'm a little sour but that's all expected.
Yesterday I went to the first choir rehearsal and I really enjoyed it. We are singing new music so I am being challenged. My Grandma Freeman (mom's mom) wants me to take a few voice lessons. I think it could really help with my breathing and breath support.
Guess what????? Wait for it.....I walked....drum roll please....5,300 steps yesterday Exciting! I'm getting up there.
-Rachel
11/18/09
 My birthday was Sunday and on Saturday night we had a birthday party for me and it was SO much fun. We had it at our house and decorated with hot pink and black, which looked amazing - thanks to Dana for the idea! It was about 25 of my friends including my sister, and my parents. Amanda Gray took pictures of Joe and I in the front yard before everyone got there. We are going to use them for our holiday cards. My birthday party was so refreshing and vibrant. I had such a great time especially because of Dana who did so much of the work that night with preparing everything. And Juliette made a salad bar which was such a great idea. I loved it and so did everyone else!!! I had an amazing time and it was perfect!
Yesterday I walked 4809 steps. Very exciting. It seems like I can do things longer and I can get more done throughout the day, but it is definitely a slow recovery. I reflect on my progress like once a week and that's it, because if I look at it once a day I get frustrated knowing that there is little or no progress.
The anxiety group is going well. This week we worked on identifying when we have anxiety and how we feel, what we think about, and most importantly what we can think about immeditely following the identification that we are having a panic attack. I have learned so far that I have better control when someone is with me and says, "Rachel just breath, your fine, it's going to be okay" and then I'm fine. When I think those thoughts to myself it usually takes longer for me to identify that I am fine, something happened, and that's it, I'm not in danger and it's just in my head the degree of what I perceive to be dangerous or scary. Like for the party I was blowing up balloons and one poped as it hit the ceiling and I said "uuuuhhhh" loudly and started to cry and Becky, our roommate, told me it's just a balloon and I'm fine. And I was. When the next balloon popped, I was fine and nothing happened.
Joe and I start couples counceling today. We have issues now, but its things like how he drives and that I have no clean underwear. Things that I can't do for myself. I will let you know how it goes.
Mom, Dad, and I are going to Virigina this week. I am either going to get there and feel great, or I am going to get there, be moody and irritable. I hope everything goes okay. I seem to be updating about once a week. I hope that works for everyone.
Oh...I don't know if I mentioned that I am seeing a personal trainer now specializing in rehabilitation patients. I walked 1/4 of a mile on a treadmill at .5-1.8, it took me 14 minutes and I held on for dear life. I had a panic attack at the beginning and he said what's wrong, and I said I don't want to fall off, and he said are you going to let yourself fall off, and I said NO WAY, and he said so what's the problem. I was okay after that. Thank you to LDM and Key Auto Recovery. You are a great family.
-Rachel
11/07/09
Last night I was beat. I was tired. I couldn't believe my feet were still going one in front of the other. Not only did I accomplish the goal of walking 3,000 steps....wait for it....I plowed through walking 4,000 steps. I'm so proud of myself. SO proud. I still can't believe that I did it. I mean that's huge! And the fact I can even get out of bed this morning without my usual pain is a miracle in itself. Awesome.
-Rachel
11/06/09
You know when you haven't been to the gym in like 5 months and you go and you work out and you feel great? Then the next day you wake up and you think, wow, I love going to the gym but man this hurts a lot. That's totally where I am. Because of LDM Enterprises, Leslie, and Powerhouse Gym, Mom and I can go to the gym together. I am taking it easy. Like only lifting 5 pounds or no pounds. I am sore. At least I know this is the kind of pain I am supposed to have and this kind of pain will get me somewhere. I can't wait to go swimming again with Joe. It was hard, but it was fun. We talked about our holiday list and stuff. Side note: our relationship has really been great this past week. I don't know what has changed or shifted but I hope it continues. I love being happy
P.S. I walked 2,780 steps yesterday. My goal today is to break 3,000. I am on my way to a marathon....ok ok....a successful walk around the block with the dogs.
-Rachel
11/04/09
I am in so much pain today. It is the worst day I have had in a long time. Yesterday I had PT and Demetrious really kicked my butt. My thighs were shaking when we finished. Then last night Joe and I went to the gym for the first time since the accident. We went swimming for about a half hour. I had water weights in my hands and I was kicking without stopping for 15 minutes. I am TOTALLY paying for it today. This is the kind of pain I need to have. This is the good pain that is going to get me back in the game.
I started attending a cognitive anxiety group. If I only get one thing out of this class that meets 4 times, it would be to be able to drive again. The first step is to be able to drive as a passenger without having anxiety. My family and I are concerned that I will get behind the wheel and swerve to avoid someone hitting me and in the interim hit someone else. It's just not what anyone else needs.
Dana and I are working on planning a birthday party for me in a couple of weeks. We have gotten decorations and ordered the cake. I am very excited to be celebrating my life. Our color theme is hot pink and black. I REALLY can't wait!!!
I have been using the cane to go to the bathroom at night, instead of the walker. Other than the above, there really hasn't been anything else in the last week. That is why I haven't written. Sometimes no news is good news.
-Rachel
10/27/09
I had a rough day yesterday. I was in bed all day, mostly sleeping. I wasn't in pain and I didn't feel sick, but I felt hot and totally under energized. It was strange. Then I woke up at 3:30 and watched TV til 6ish and decided I couldn't go back to bed but that I could NOT watch anymore TV. So I made cookies and cupcakes for my Mom to take to the office. I want the team to know I am still with them and that I care about them and think about them often.
Today I had PT and we did A LOT. Sit to stands, the tall bike, the short bike, stretching, and walking. He okayed me to start going back to the gym. Joe and I are planning on going tomorrow. I am allowed to do anything. I will let you know how it goes.
I started wearing a pedometor so I know how I am improving on walking. Before today I had walked no more than 730 steps. Today I walked just under 2,000 steps....2,000 steps!!!!!!! And I have taken the least amount of norco (the narcatic pill I am taking) than ever before. One and a half pills today. I'm proud
-Rachel
10/24/09
 
Dana, Larry, Joe, and I baked dozens and dozens of cookies and took them to the fire station that pulled me out of the car during the accident. It was lots of fun cooking. It was the first time I have cooked, other than the mac n cheese I made in rehab. The firefighters were very happy to see that I am doing okay. They said that they never get to see the after thoughts of an accident scene.
We then went to the Griffith Park Observatory. It was cool, but the universe isn't my main idea of exciting. But it is always good to expand the mind and learn new things.
I am having nerve pain in the top of my left foot. It is tolerable, but I can't help to always think about getting that nerve back. I just want it back.
 Tonight Joe and I are going to a halloween carnival at the school Joe works at. It's a fundraiser for the fifth grade trip to Catalina. Joe and my costume for halloween are SO cute!!! We are going to be super freakin cute!!!! Do you want to know what we are going to be for Halloween?!?!?! I'll give you a hint...we both wear mustaches, hats, and we are cartoons. :) can't wait!!! This year Joe is super excited about our costumes!!!
Wow....sometimes you just need to take a deep breart and realize that you are in the presence of amazing people, with an amazing view, thankful for being alive and well...
-Rachel
10/22/09
I graduated today.....to a cane, permanently! I know, you are shocked...to be honest so am I. So when I left PT, I walked to the car. Then I went back to Kaiser to see a friend who is in the hospital. I walked from the handicap lot to the room, and then back down to the car....with NO wheelchair. Today my left foot is bothering me constantly, and after I walk for a while my hip hurts, but I just have to tough it out.
I have had a very productive week. Yesterday I decided I missed having the cleaning fairy come (my wonderful Mom), and I could not stand my house anymore...it was too dirty. So I got in my wheelchair, I folded a load of laundry, I used the swiffer to sweep and mop, I emptied the trash and put it outside of the front door, I emptied the trash in our bathroom, I cleaned the counters and toilet in our bathroom, I sprayed cleaner in the shower, but I could not actually scrub it, I made our bed, and I cleaned off our dressers. I was amazed. I had so much energy and was determined to get stuff done. When I was done, I didn't even need to take a nap. I could be the commercial for the energizer battery...I just keep going and going and going. I'm just kidding.
I really wanted to start going to our gym and start using the pool because I bought weights for the pool and it is supposed to be the best kind of exercises for you when you are in rehab and recovering. Joe doesn't seem like he wants to go. I'm kind of sad about it really. I came home yesterday and he was jogging in front of the TV on the WII Fit and said "I think I want to cancel our gym membership because I am more likely to do this than go to the gym." Shocking right. He used to love our gym, and I am not ready to give up our membership. And frankly I REALLY want to go swimming. After typing this, I really need to express my feelings to Joe and find out why he doesn't want to go. Maybe it is because there are stairs to go up into the gym, or because he feels unsafe trying to help me get in the pool. I will work on it and let you know. See where our communication in lacking in our relationship too. We need to talk more...you know the mushy gushy how do you feel kind of stuff.
I had hand therapy yesterday for the first time. I need to follow through everyday with my right hand exercises or I am going to loose the range of motion in my right wrist for ever. Eventually the ligaments will just give up and I will be stuck with what I have. The hand therapist said I have a lot of work to do still. I bought an ice pack, because she said I needed to ice it every time I work with it or it will get really swollen. No one had ever told me this before, which could be the cause of it always being swollen.
I had mentioned that I was sleeping really well...well that totally changed. I'm not sleeping well now, and I am still not taking the sleeping medication because I don't realize I am not sleeping until like 3am, when it is to late. I am going to contact my doctor and find out if there is something we can do.
And now I am off with my cane....cross your figures for no falling accidents!!! Thank you in advance
-Rachel
10/18/09
I don't think I mentioned this yesterday, but Joe and I are staying at a hotel this weekend. We are staying in a handicap room at a Sheraton. The bathroom has a walk in shower with a bench, so when I went to get in the shower I thought "hum...a walk in shower, maybe I should walk in and stand instead of sit." So I did. I stood to take a shower for the first time in 4 months. I held onto the bars the whole time and if I closed my eyes, like when I washed my face, that is when I lost my balance but I always recovered with the bars.
Joe said to me this morning that he has had the best two nights sleep since I have been home. I believe it is due to my bladder medication. I have been working with my primary doctor to see if we can help me go to the bathroom less at night. Friday night I went twice and last night I only went once. What an improvement from 5 times a night. It's fantastic.
My Dad's Godparents are in town for 3 days so we are having a family dinner at my parents tonight. We haven't all been together in such a long time. I really can't wait.
-Rachel
10/17/09
Dad called me Friday and told me that at the convention he is at, FLACARS, had him come into their members meeting and tell them about my progress. I really think it is great that they care SO much about me to discuss my progress during their meeting.
I had therapy last Wednesday for the first time as out patient. After reading the extensive damage my body went through, he said that he was very impressed with the things I was doing. I walked down the hall with nothing...he stood next to me and I put my hand over his just in case I needed it and the walker was in front of me and he was pushing it. I was doing squats. They hurt, but I can do them, and they are really small.
I went to orientation for therapy and I had a one-on-one session with the orientation specialist. He said that I have anxiety and it's so true. I didn't have this until the accident. I just get sad. I hope I eventually grow out of it.
Joe and I are spending a lovely weekend together. It is a break that Joe really really really needs and deserves.
I really want to go to the gym next week and try to go swimming with the water weights I got. Joe's skeptical about it, which I get, but I still need to keep progressing.
-Rachel
10/11/09
Today is such a better day than yesterday. My body was soar and acky. If Dana and I hadn't gone out all day, I would have been in bed all day. Today on the other hand my body felt better. Joe and I went to church for the first time since the accident. Then we went to Huntington Beach and saw Dad's good friend Jeff Trevis. Then Larry, Dana, Mom, Dad, Joe, and I went to see Couples Retreat, which we all loved. Funny stuff. I had a very nice weekend.
I seem to be going to bed very early these days. Like 8:30, 9:00. I get worn out....time for bed.
-Rachel
10/09/09
This has been one of the most exciting weeks I have had in a very long time. I am taking 2 1/2 Norco a day, which is the narcotic pill I have been taking, and 3 weeks ago I was taking 4 Norco a day when I was in rehab. I start out patient therapy next week. I went back to Kaiser and saw the nurses that took care of me, of which my favorite was Chrissel who was amazing. I have hung out with Dana a lot which always raises my spirits. Joe and my movie extravaganza was a success!!! I sat in the wheelchair, but this weekend I think we are going to go to a movie with my parents and Joe and I want to walk in!!! I think I am ready for it.
Don't get me wrong, it's not like everythings peaches and cream. Joe and I are going through a rough patch, which obviously happens when something like this tragedy has happened. If we didn't have issues most people would be concerned. Joe is still dealing with the grieving process. We are going to work on this over the weekend.
Yesterday I decided I was relying too much on the wheelchair so I started walking everywhere. For 2 days I have not been relying on the wheelchair but instead using the walker for everything. I will be walking with a cane in a couple weeks, I'm pretty sure.
Mom, Dad, and I went to temple tonight because Cantor Glasser was there. For the first time I cried during the prayer of healing, and as I held my parents I said that I was never happier to be at temple with them. It was perfect.
Dana and I are going to Ikea tomorrow to furniture shop. I love Ikea . Then my great aunt and uncle will be here for dinner and Sunday we are going down to Huntington Beach to see my Dad's good friend Jeff Trevis. This weekend will be great.
Remember....today is what you make of it.
-Rachel
10/03/09
It's 10:30am and Joe's still sleeping. Poor Joe...he stayed up late to play video games while I slept, and now he is beat. He and Larry, Dana's husband are going to the movies today. I will probably rest in bed while Joe's not here and then I am going to take Joe to see another movie. One of Joe's favorite things to do is go to the movies. I really think I am ready to sit through a movie, although I will definitely make sure to pick a shorter movie to see.
I am starting to do things around the house, which really makes me feel accomplished, yet distraught at the same time. Yesterday Mom went on a cleaning spree and was asking me where things were placed and who's things were out, since we have two roommates. I put a bunch of stuff away in the kitchen, and it really looked great when I was finished. I was feeling tired after, so I laid down for 30 minutes. But this morning, I got up and there were two spots in our small living room where the dogs had an accident (I don't know why I call them accidents, since I know they were intentional). We can't seem to get them through the doggy door in the mornings. I can't figure it out...urgh! So I cleaned one of them up, but I ran out of paper towels, which are stored in the laundry room. I can't get into the laundry room, SO I have to wait for Joe to get up to ask him to go get them. Sometimes things like this can really drive me up a wall. I just need to be patient and realize it's just paper towels and I need to remember not to sweat the small stuff.
I was telling Joe last night that my perspective on which battles I fight, like choosing to be upset that I can't get to the paper towels has really changed. I think about how I can't get to the paper towels, but I don't really care about it. The small stuff just DOESN'T matter. I am still a control freak, I can't help that. I think I get some kind of satisfaction from controlling things. During this whole thing, I realized that the only way I could be in control of my life was to boss people around. I said please and thank you, but they had to do it my way all the time. I needed the satisfaction that I was in control of things. I get why I did it, and I have apologized for it, but it just gets you thinking about people we know who have problems with their bodies who have to be in control of things by yelling at their loved ones. I totally get it now, not that I condone it, I just get it.
-Rachel
10/02/09
This is the view that I see when I look up from my transfer bench in the shower. I just finished my shower and opened the window before getting up and as I am looking out the window at the beautiful sky and the bright green trees, I thought to myself...today is going to be a great day...and then I called for Mom and with tears in my eyes, I asked her to please bring me my phone so I could take a picture of it to share with you. Just like yesterday, today is what you make of it...my day is going to be great, and I hope you make yours great too.
-Rachel
10/01/09 12PM
Not to be negative, but I am tired of being tired. I have not really slept the last three nights so I have not been feeling rested.
I had PT today and she says I am ready for outpatient therapy. She also says I am improving so much each time I see her. I can move my left foot from side to side and I have movement and feeling in my pinky toe. This is all very good but...I am still tired. Mom said, as I sat in the shower and cried, that I needed to make what I had today the best that it can be. I agreed and stopped crying. Today is going to be what it is, and what I make of it.
-Rachel
09/30/09
High Holidays, Kol Nidre and Yom Kippor, were such an accomplishment for me in SO many ways. Even little things, like I went to bed late and got up early the next day with having less than 7 hours of sleep and I was still able to function.
My solo song with the choir went really well and I got to sing a song with the 2 girls who are my age who I have been singing with since the beginning. The choir is like my family. I love them very much as individual people and then again as a group. When temple was over I came home and slept for 5 hours and still had a full nights rest. So you can imagine how exhausted I was. There was a Yisker service in the afternoon that I could not make it to. I just couldn't do it. Click here to read the speech I read during High Holidays.
Today I had PT and she told me that I have improved a lot since she saw me last, which was a week ago. But today I met with her at 9am and last week I met with her at 2pm. I think the timing makes a difference. I have new exercises to work on this week that will help me to glide while I walk.
-Rachel
09/27/09
Guess what I did this morning??? Got up, showered, got dressed (including socks and the patches I wear on my feet...I get my socks on with a sock helper thing), and had breakfast without waking Joe up!!! I am so proud of myself. And all of it took one hour and ten minutes. Unbelievable. When I got home a week ago it took me 2 hours just to get ready and that was with someone helping me!!!
People kept telling me "you are such a miracle" and I kind of blew it off. But the truth is I really am a miracle. That beetle was smushed. And I am finally at a point were I get it. Since I have been home I have only visited the "pitty party" once, and it was for a whole day. But I got out of it with the help of Joe, Mom, Dad, and Dana. I am never happy when I go to the pitty party. And I don't want to visit it again for a long time.
 I am a miracle. I am alive. I have no brain or spinal injury and I am on my way to being myself again, although I will be a different self since I have a new perspective on life.
Have a great day And thanks for visiting and checking up on me. It means a lot.
This is, what Joe calls "our new whip." I am happy to have something to get around in, thanks to ARB for a great deal. It's an 07 Town and Country. It's the Cadillac of mini vans.
-Rachel
09/24/09
  I got my hair done today with Dana. I look great, I feel great, and I love the life I am living! And I'm getting better
I went from this to the other picture in 3 months. I couldn't have done it without my family and Dana and of course you. Thank you.
-Rachel
09/24/09
We are starting to look for cars for me. We are test driving an 06 Dodge Magnum wagon and it's not bad. It was kind of growing on me but it had a lot of miles. We ended up getting an 07 town and country, thanks to ARB. We are going to use it until I am ready to drive and then we will give it to Aunt Janet and get something else.
I had PT Monday at my house, but it was mostly the evaluation. I get at home therapy for 2 weeks and then I do out patient therapy at Kaiser. I had OT yesterday and she said there is no reason for her to come back because the only problem is my wrist.
I had the follow up for my wrist and he said that I am just dealing with stiffness and I need to work through the pain and if I do it diligently for 6 weeks it will be back to normal.
I went to Target with Dana.... Picture this... Dana pushing me in my wheelchair, me pushing the cart, coming around curves yelling "dun na na na na na...charge." You know you wish you were there!!!
Mornings have been the hardest. I have showered every morning but one, and it takes a lot out of me. I feel like after I get ready I need a nap. Nights are the best and most relaxing. I need to get into a routine of doing all of the exercises I need to do. It has been almost a week since I have been home and I really haven't done enough. Joe and I have to start walking at night so I build up my long distance walking. We will be starting that tomorrow night.
Shana Tova, Happy New Year, to those who apply. I hope you're reflecting on the past year and looking into the new year. I hope your fast goes well.
-Rachel
09/20/09
Being home is so great but it is so challenging. I am walking a lot more frequently and I think this is a good move for us. I'm excited for Joe that he will be able to go to work and be able to come home and not have to go to the hospital everyday.
I have showered everyday on the transfer bench and it has been great. Joe and I are going to start walking outside everyday so I keep up with my long distance walking.
I'm exhausted, but I promise to write more tomorrow.
-Rachel
09/17/09
I'm going home tomorrow. I have come a LONG way. But I understand that I still have a lot of work to do. Today I dealt with the fear of going home. I just need to take it day by day and not think about the "what ifs." I really can't wait to spend more time with Joe. Can't wait to be home sweet home. It seems like forever.
-Rachel
09/16/09
 Joe went back to work this week, so I have been dealing with a lot of boredom. I discovered a room at the end of the hall that is used for therapeutic recreational therapy which is one of the therapies they have which I do not qualify for or need. They have pottery that you can paint whenever there is a therapist in the room. I painted this bowl with my right wrist, which was the broken wrist, and it has a lot of details involved in it. I would say this bowl took me about 7 hours and it looks great!!!! Very very exciting stuff. I am going to give it to my grandparents they will definitely appreciate it.
I got my AFO brace today which keeps my left leg in a neutral position instead of the dropped position while I walk. I like it but it is heavy and now I walk slower.
It is looking like I will be discharged on Friday, like in 2 days. Crazy scary. But I really think that I have maxed out what they can help me with. The home evaluation went well. It's where the therapists come over and look at the house, see what equipment I need to get, and see what I need to work on before I go home.
I have a really great attitude and am excited to go to the next step in the recovery process.
Look at that detail!!!! Awesome!!!!
09/15/09
Hi Dad!
If you didn't get the memo, this weekend was incredible. I am truly happy. I am
seeing amazing results at rehab and it is making a difference in my attitude.
Thank you for putting up with me for 3 months. Thank you for coming to visit me
every opportunity you get. Thank you for establishing impeccable family values
that we all live by which has gotten me this far. I love you.
-Rachel
09/14/09
CALR was amazing! Being with my family and a fantastic group of people. A big thank you to everyone who was there for CALR and who aided in furthering my success.
Everything went smoothly. We didn't encounter any problems at all. I am exhausted and so is Joe. Time for bed. Good night.
-Rachel
09/10/09
It's Thursday at 2am and GUESS WHAT???? I just got up, called the nurse, put my sneekers on, used my walker, and went to the real toilet to go to the bathroom for the first time in the middle of the night in 3 months and I did great!!! I gave my nurse a hug and thanked her for believing in me. This gives you a huge look into your life and what you may take for granted everyday. And of course what do I do??? Come back to bed and immediately put this in the blog....you are my support system. You are getting me through this and I love you and appreciate you. Thank you so much for helping me get better. Now I'm crying at 2am...deep breaths...ok. Time for bed.
-Rachel
09/09/09
The purpose of the picture is to show you the trough on the walker. I've had some questions about it. The rainbow belt is what they gave me in rehab and it is used for the person helping me to hold it if I need help standing or if I become unbalanced they can hold me up. The flowers in the background are from my parents
I walked 50 ft with PT, got into the car they have for training, and I climbed a 4 1/2 inch stair. Up and down but I went down the stair backwards because I couldn't go forward. We have about a 10 inch stair to get into our house that is the same level as the house. The training with Joe went well and PT is not worried since he always helps me with transfers in the room. Mom's training is tomorrow. And I can't wait for Saturday!
-Rachel
09/09/09
I do not have range of motion in my right wrist to move it up. My wrist can go up if I use my other hand to move it up but I can't do it myself with my muscles. I HAVE to work on building up my muscles or I'm not going to get my wrist back to normal. With PT I walked 150 feet with the walker with the trough.
They gave me a discharge date today, approved by Kaiser, September 23rd. Tomorrow Joe is coming to train on how to be the only one with me in order to prevent me from falling. Mom is training on Thursday. Next Monday OT is doing a home inspection with me at my house to see what I need to work on before I go home. I start training with stairs this week.
Joe and I are leaving for CALR Saturday morning and it has been approved by PT. And I will have met a goal
-Rachel
09/06/09
Yesterday I lost my balance 3 times. It is because we took the trough, arm rest, off of the walker and I don't have enough strength in my right wrist to hold my body up. We put the trough back on. I will work with PT without it and when my wrist gets stronger, we will permanently take it off.
Yesterday I walked 70 feet with the walker without the trough. I am improving every day, which I am very excited about. I use a belt and I can put my left leg on the bed. I can put my right shoe and sock on. I can take both shoes off. I can pull up my pants after I use the restroom. I can write. Sometimes it looks like a child's writing, but I can do it. I can stand at the sink to brush my teeth, wash my hands, and put on make up. I can shower by myself once I get into the shower. I have improved a lot. Sometimes coping with the struggle to walk really gets to me but if I could walk, I would be home. I just have to keep things like that in mind. I am here to learn how to walk again.
Thanks for checking in. Happy Labor Day.
-Rachel
09/05/09
Chunk, our cocker spanial, and I were reunited outside of the rehab facility. Lady, our beagle, was staying with us at our parents, but Chunk was at home being watched by our roommate. Seeing Chunk put a huge smile on my face!!!
We have permanently removed the trough from the walker. As far as therapy, I walked with the walker 30ft, 45ft, and 55ft. Then with OT we made my hand very hot and she stretched my wrist. I have very little range of motion up, so that is what we will be working on this week. Dana and Juliette came for 5 hours today. I really enjoyed their company.
Have a happy and enjoyable Labor Day weekend.
-Rachel
09/03/09
Guess what??? I walked 70 feet with the walker with the trough! Today was a great day! Guess what else??? I walked the length of the parallel bars, 15 feet, with just my hands. So I didn't use the trough. We found out yesterday that I can bare weight on my right wrist as pain is tolerated. I took a shower with OT today because they evaluate what I can and can't do. I did everything myself. I needed help sitting before the shower and getting up after the shower.
I was a little lonely today so I called my Bubbie and she kept me company and went with me to PT. It was wonderful to spend time with her. Everything made it a good day.
Dad was here for almost 2 hours. I love spending time with him. So many of you know what he has been going through and has had to deal with. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping my family rock, my Dad, stay strong and for being with him in times that he has needed you. We couldn't have done it without you.
We had a request for my email address today, so for those of you who don't have it: rachelrandazzo@gmail.com. I would love to hear from you.
-Rachel
09/02/09
Update from Dad:
To friends and family out of the area, the fires in LA are close to us, but we are in NO danger at all, house or hospital. To friends and family in the area, this holiday weekend Rachel will be in rehab at Northridge Hospital. I need your help so she doesn't get bored Sunday and Monday. Please call my cell phone 818-571-2895 so I can schedule you throughout the day on Sunday and Monday.
09/02/09
Today was a great day. I want to tell you briefly because it's midnight and I need sleep. I get weekly goals, like put my pants on 50-75 percent, and walk 50 feet with the walker. I walked 43 feet today and I worked with a different physical therapist who is amazing. We worked on dropping my shoulder blades, tightening my butt, and core while I walk. I got in a fake bath tub with OT. I needed help with my left leg. I spent, from start to finish, 2 hours with Mom taking a shower. It was needed. My first complete shower in 9 weeks. My potential discharge date is anywhere between Sep 16th-23rd. Based on my progress this week, they will have a more definite date. I love writing, but I must go to bed!
-Rachel
09/01/09
Today I sat in the wheelchair for over 8 hours. Incredible! I am successfully preparing for CALR. I got my color wrist band, yellow, which means I can not stand up on my own, which is so true. Tomorrow is the big evaluation day!
I used the toilet twice, and the kamode twice. This is a big increase from one of each a day. I walked the length of the parallel bars, which is about 15 feet. I stopped to sit once. My Mom was there and let me tell you I think moments like these are when a mom feels proud. And the therapist used an ace bandage like thing to hold my left foot in the correct place so it was like I didn't have drop foot!!! I totally cried from happiness to know that if the syatic nerve doesn't heal that there are ideas and devices that can be used to successfully aid me in walking normally. Instead of what I have been doing, which is lift my thigh up high enough for the foot to come up off the ground.
I then had OT and my therapist wanted me to cook food in the kitchen, so we made mac n cheese. BUT first, she wanted me to walk there, which was definitely over 15 feet. I cried half way there but I did make it without stopping. I am determined.
In the morning before any therapy I wheeled myself from my room to the nurses station twice. I took my nurse for coffee in the middle of the day. I am such a good patient that she requests me! See, and Mom thought I was going to call all of them incompetent.
My ankles, if I can even call them that (because they are so fat you can't tell where my leg ends and where my ankles begin...my legs just become feet-obviously I am upset about it) are so swollen that my ankles can't turn my feet, so it hurts to move my feet other than straight. Oh geeze.
I am happier. To be blunt...I was a real jerk at different times, during different days, sometimes it was unexpected, and usually inevitable. But let me tell you, as long as I can admit I was wrong and say I'm sorry, my family will forgive me. Remember that for yourself.
I got a wonderful gift today from my third grade teacher, who I am dear friends with, the movie "He's Just Not That Into You.". Ladies, if you have the perfect man, watch this movie because it will make you appreciate him SO MUCH! And guys, this is a good chick flick for you to watch because at the end she will be mushy and gushy with lots of tissues and you will be appreciated and loved. You know, don't you think it would have been funny to get the movie as a gift, but with it comes a Netflix envelope. Gag gift for sure!
And, I'm funny again. I've really missed my life and it's slowly coming back.
-Rachel
08/29/09
 Today was mostly a great day. With OT we
went in the pretend kitchen where you cook/prepare food like you would at
home. I stood myself up using the sink and using my forearms walked about 4
feet to the microwave and back. Then I had PT where I peddled a stationary
peddle mover bike thing that you roll your wheelchair up to.
I find out my tentative discharge date on Tuesday, which is also when I get
the goals that all the therapists have set for me. I also get a wrist band
which says what I can do like go for walks with my family and sit up with no
one there etc.
On a more intimate note: I used a real toilet for the first time and did
everything myself. To be blunt, just think about how lucky you are that you
goal in life today isn't to wipe your own butt and how people go years not
being able to accomplish that goal which we take advantage of all the time.
Going in a real toilet was Mom's suggestion and when the nurse came in to help
me and we had everything in the restroom i.e. me in the wheelchair with the
walker, her eyes got SO big and I said come on let's go! Amazing right!
My feet are fat. My ankles are fat. And when I say fat, I mean REALLY FAT!!
I can't even move my right foot side to side now. I was in the wheelchair most
of the day so my feet are down. I have to sleep with then elevated every
night. This is the most painful for me right now.
While I don't have therapy, I have decided to do something productive with my
time. I am starting to write a book about taking over the family business. Joe
and I are going to write the outline tomorrow. I am also finishing my speech,
which I am reading at High Holidays (for those of you who don't know, this is
a pretty big deal to be asked to speak, and about 1500 people attend). I have
sung solos in front of this amazing group of people and I am so excited to
have the honor of speaking.
It's late. I must go to sleep. Have a great rest of the weekend and think
about all of the things you take for granted. You may see at least one thing
differently forever... Today, I had a cup of coffee...my first real cup...let
me tell ya, I always took coffee for granted and I never will again! And
of course the whole real toilet thing! ;-)
08/27/09
 I met with Occupational Therapy this morning.
We used the sliding board and went from the bed to the wheelchair. It was SO
SO SO much easier than the transfers I did yesterday. And I felt very vibrant
today so I wearing teal capris. I'm super cute!!!
One of the nurses came in today for the first time and looked at my incisions.
She asked how long ago the accident was and said they had healed so well she
would have guessed it had been 2 years!!! Yay for Mom and her Vitamin E
and my Melaleuca Vitamin packs!!!
Mom and I went for a stroll and we window shopped in the lobby of the hospital
where they are having a bazaar. It was fun. Then we got coffee smoothies,
which was so good...I haven't had coffee is over 2 months. Now we are going to
check out the indoor pool. And I think I just saw a delivery basket with my
name on it entering the hospital :-)
08/26/09
The first day of rehab is pretty boring. We have been doing evaluations and assessments all morning. And after lunch I am supposed to go for a bunch of different tests and x-rays. Joe and Mom are still with me. Joe says he doesn't want to leave me with boredom.
The full information about where I am: Northridge Hospital in the IFL Tower, which is the North tower at the circular driveway off of Roscoe and Etiwanda, 3rd floor room 3318-B (chai!). I have my own room and they said it would probably stay that way.
I was weighed this morning too and I have lost 33 pounds since the day of the accident. I actually stood up on the scale. It had a railing for me to hold and I had help getting up. This was not the ideal way to loose weight, but I am totally ready to change my lifestyle. I am looking forward to more coming off soon. I have lost as much weight as Joe has!!!
After my physical therapist lectured me yesterday about being strong, not crying, maintaining my cool, and composure, I am definitely ready to be here. Later today there are going to put me on a wheelchair with a whole and I will get to use an actual restroom. And on Friday, I will get a real shower. I may be sitting, but it's a start.
08/24/09
I am starting in patient rehab
this Wednesday. Visiting hours are from 4pm-8pm. And I will be somewhere at
Northridge Hospital at Roscoe and Reseda...between the indoor and outdoor
pool. I don't know how tired I will be at night, but I know I am going to need
support: emails with encouragement, etc. I don't know what to expect at rehab,
except that my grandmother in law called and said "you are going to have
a lot of pain and I want you to be prepared for it but if you tell them you
are in pain, they will stop." What an intro, right...gotta love
Grammy!
On a more personal level, I have had a great day! I sat in Dad's chair
for three and a half hours, I had two sets of wonderful visitors, and I
finally had gorilla legs and eye brows waxed. I feel like a woman
again-sorry, but only half of the people will appreciate that comment.
Amanda and my new nephew--note: nephew not by blood, but close enough-- baby
Jason are coming to visit in the morning, so I know my day tomorrow will start
off wonderfully. Then I have physical therapy so we will be doing another
transfer.
08/22/09
I have been accepted into in
patient rehab at Northridge for Tuesday or Wednesday of this up coming week.
Very exciting.
Today I went to the shop and we had a BBQ. I had a great time spending time
with them. I sat in the wheelchair for 3 hours. Tomorrow I am going to temple
choir. I feel like I need to practice before High Holidays specifically
because I broke a rib and had a punctured lung in the accident.
Can't wait for rehab!
08/21/09
I am getting my feet scrubed/exfoliated by my two wonderful friends. The doctor says that fungus and bacteria can grow and cause infections.
Joe says I have bucket feet.
08/20/09
I stood today for the first time with physical therapy. We moved from the bed to the kamode and back to the bed.
We got the okay for inpatient rehab at Northridge. So now we are waiting for a phone call saying that they have an open bed. It was painful. But more so I don't have the muscles to support me standing on my own. It was way more challenging than I anticipated. The positive thing is that I am going in the right direction!
All good news!
-Rachel
08/19/09
We had an appointment today with my primary doctor at Kaiser. She checked out everything and said things like we need to exfoliate my feet and use antifungle to prevent infection. She referred me to the nerve specialist who will be deciding the rehab I will be doing. We have an appointment with him tomorrow afternoon. So this week was a waiting game...
My Mom, Dad, and Joe were outside Kaiser just about to bring me out of the van, and I said "We are really lucky that we don't have to do this for the rest of my life. We only have to do it for a few months. I am lucky I'm not paralyzed." And I am.
-Rachel
08/17/09
FROM MIKE 8 PM
Well it has been a while since I wrote to you. Rachel has been doing a great job so far. We have had our ups and downs with life. Rachel had a big day. The doctor that did the pelvis surgery in Santa Monica requested to see her, so we put her in a ambulance and went for a ride. The doctor released her from no weight bearing to GET OUT OF BED AND GET INTO A REHAB CENTER.
This means she will move out of our house and go to a center to learn to walk. We will be working with Kaiser to find a center that will take her . We know there will be challenges and we all are ready. Tuesday 08/18/09 we will start on the hunt.
08/17/09
This is a picture of me. We are waiting to see the doctor. Big day!
-Rachel
08/14/09
I put socks and shoes on both feet. Well Dana put them on. There is no way I could put them on myself.
I am eating almost 100 percent of my meals with the over sized silverware. I am writting with my right hand for 10 minutes a day. My hand is doing well but because the first set of knuckles were covered by the original cast, those knuckles are tight. They are preventing me from making a tight fist. I do my hand exercise 4 times a day.
-Rachel
08/12/09
I sat up for one hour and twenty five minutes. I ate half of my meals today with an over sized fork grip with my right hand.
The OT told me I am not doing my hand exercises enough. I have had no change in 5 days. So I will be doing them 4-5 times a day for the next week and see what kind of progress there is.
I can take up to 6 pain pills a day, and I am taking 4-5 a day, so we're decreasing.
On Sunday my good friend Amanda Gray had a baby, Jason. We went to the hospital to visit. I was in the wheel chair for an hour and a half.
On Saturday we had a BBQ at my parents for our team at the shop. Seeing them was amazing! They lifted my spirits so much. They have been there for my Mom, Dad, and Uncle Hal especially during the biggest move HAR has made, into a new building. Without my guys and Melissa I could not have my Mom at home as a relief for Joe and Lorrayne. You must know that the team I work with is absolutely amazing. Thank you is an understatement. I was honored to have a few special guests including the president of CALR Chris Wilson and his wife Kristy, our accountant Mark Phillips and his wife Lynn, our insurance agent Don Izen and his family, one of my former Girl Scout leaders Candy Tomanek and her husband Bob, and our former automotive neighbor at our old shop Vince Valdivia and his wife Rebecca. Thank you so much to everyone in attendance for raising my spirits and for keeping me active in this game of recovery.
5 days left til I find out if I can walk.
-Rachel
08/08/09
Here's a picture of Joe and I.
For the last two days I have had severe pain in my left foot. This means the nerves are doing something, which is great, but the discomfort is horrible! But I am glad they are working.
-Rachel
08/08/09
My bowels are becoming more regular as long as I drink water and eat dried fruit. I am much more comfortable.
This morning I ate Cherrios-honey nut -with my right hand (that's the one that is broken). I tried to put on deodorant with that hand, but I can't put pressure on it yet. I am wearing pajamas for the first time instead of a hospital gown.
I woke up a lot last night. About 6 times. Then I took a long nap in the late morning.
Now I'm watching movies on TV. I hope you have a great weekend!
-Rachel
08/06/09
Yesterday was one of the worst days I have had. I was negative and had a horrible ora. Dad even suggested that I get anti depression pills, which I vetoed. I'm emotional! And it's rough sometimes.
Today was a great day. Long story short, the doctor that determines when I can start walking moved my appointment up to the 17th. So I have 11 days left!!! So exciting.
But...even more exciting is that on my left foot-the bad one- I can move all of my toes!!! Before today I could only move my big toe.
Just a little at a time...
-Rachel
08/03/09
The days get away from me and sometimes there is nothing new to report. That is why we haven't been writing every day.
So here is the news you are all waiting for:
-With a huge, words can't express, thank you to Steve at SSR, we have a van with a lift gate. We got in the wheelchair and we went to the new shop. Round trip an hour and a half. The ride back hurt a lot. My left hip was in pain. Dad asked me when we are going to do it again and I told him I want to call the doctor and make sure that even though I'm in pain that what we are doing is okay. I don't want to over do anything at all.
-Friday I sat up for 38 minutes which was a record.
-Today I sat up 4 times, and one time was for 1 hour. I get stiff now just lying in bed. And it gets boring.
-My feet are swollen. I am going to sleep with them elevated above my heart tonight and we will ask the doctor about it tomorrow.
-Our temple choir director, Tova, called and told me that she added a song that I sing with the choir to the program for High Holidays which is near the end of September. That is another goal I have to work towards right before CALR.
-We had a BBQ tonight with some of my close friends. It was really refreshing to spend time with all of them. It really made me happy. Half of them left and then I cried for a while. And when all of them left I was sad. Not because they left but it just triggered sadness. Kind of unexplainable.
-My new favorite show is How I Met Your Mother. We have watched about 10 episodes. It reminds me of the show Friends.
Have a great week!
-Rachel
07/30/09
Yesterday I got the cast off of my hand. I saw my wrist for the first time and I was in agony over a metal rod sticking out of my wrist. And of course that is the piece they pulled out. Unbelievable. Now I have a black removable brace on my hand. The doctor seemed a little upset that I couldn't make a fist. OT will be here today so I should get some new exercises to help me.
We did not go in the wheelchair last night, so tonight it is.
I go to Kaiser again tomorrow for a nerve test.
-Rachel
07/28/09
Yesterday I was in the wheelchair for an hour. Which is great but when I lay back in bed I cry for about 10 minutes in pain from my left hip and pelvis hurting. I took an extra pain pill when they put me down. I was really concerned. I spoke to PT about it and he said that I should still get in the wheelchair even though it hurts. We took tonight off from the wheelchair because of the pain. We should be back up tomorrow.
This week has been better emotionally than last week. I was in a lull and depressed. I verbally abused my family, especially Joe, out of anger. Its hard to talk about it now, while I cry. But if I tell you about it, I am hoping not to have a relapse.
The surgeon who operated on my left leg moved my appointment to one week later. So I am one extra week in bed.
Tomorrow I have the appointment to have the pins taken out of my wrist. I am petrified. I haven't seen my wrist since the accident when I looked down after the impact and my bones were sticking up, definitely in the wrong direction. I remember this lady looking at my wrist through the window saying OH MY G-D! And a man telling her she needed to step back and be quiet. I also remember a woman putting in my left hand a piece of paper and she said Jesus is with you and I said Jesus has nothing to do with this lady. I think I was a little harsh but due to the circumstances I'm sure you get it. Anyway, I'm blabing.
For those of you who don't know, I have a younger sister Lorrayne. Our relationship was always rocky and full of arguing. I want everyone to know that she is here with me all the time. She has adjusted her life to take care of me and help Mom, Dad, and Joe. I am lucky to have her. You would be proud of her...I sure am.
Thanks for checking in with me. Talk to you soon!
-Rachel
07/25/09
I sat in the wheelchair for 1 hour today. We went outside in the 100 degree heat. I called our next door neighbor to come look at what we had accomplished. Then I cried out of joy just because I was sitting in a wheelchair on the back porch. We are going to put me back in the wheelchair in the morning when it's cool out and go for a walk around the block.
I CAN SIT IN THE WHEELCHAIR WITHOUT BEING IN PAIN. This is huge!
-Rachel
07/22/09
I apologize for not writing every day. There has really been no change.
Mom, Joe, and Lorrayne tried to put me in the wheelchair today, but it was unsuccessful because I couldn't move my leg to straddle the hoist. Lorrayne and Joe are going to practice on Lorrayne later.
Dana and I have a date tonight to watch Sex and the City. Hopefully we will watch it this time. You too could arrange a date but I am NOT cheap.
I am taking the nerve medication for my left foot and it has seemed to ease up on the pain a little, which is good.
I have worked with physical therapy and occupational therapy over the last two days. We are doing the same things I was doing in the hospital.
On a more intimate note, we think my bowel movements are back to normal and under control. This is great news!!!
That's it for now.
I would like to thank from the bottom of my heart my family and friends who visit me and send me emails. I am getting just past a month now and into a little bit of boredom and being in my head a lot. You are helping me stay strong and keeping up my positive attitude. I could not be doing this without you.
Love,
Rachel
07/18/09
I have been successfully transferred to Mom and Dad's. The ambulance ride was the best out of all three so far, so that's good. Uneventful.
As far as visiting hours there aren't restrictions. The schedule we are doing is all in the morning.
830am wake up, have breakfast
9am get a bath
By 930am we are done.
Depending on when Joe and Mom are here will determine when I will sit on the side of the bed everyday. I think 8pm will be the end of visiting hours. You do not have to knock or ring the bell, just open the door and come in. If no one greets you, please say hello to make sure I am decent before you come into the family room.
The first night was a little rough. The bed is-no joke-like a rock. Dad, Joe, and my friend Larry Beason made rails for the pillows for my legs out of plastic pipes. I will take a picture so we will be on the same page. Then it took 6 people to lift me into the air while Dana put a blow up air mattress under me. So this is me, on a rock hard bed, with plastic pipe reinforcement, with Dad at the end of the bed using a pump to blow up the air mattress. It was fun.
That's all for now. Have a really great day!
-Rachel
07/17/09
I am being transported to my parents house today, Friday, at 3pm by
ambulance.
Their address is:
7657 Marlborough Court, West Hills (if you use a GPS the city is Canoga
Park) 91304
-Rachel
Reminder from Mike:
CALL THE FLOWER SHOP TO SEND FLOWERS:
The local flower shop is Mr. B's Flowers:
www.mrbsflowers.com
(818)993-1234
Just give them Rachel REITER/Randazzo
If you have a problem, call me at 818-705-4150
By you calling Mr. B's Flowers, they will make the arrangements and bring different ones weekly. If Rachel moves, they will be informed.
07/16/09 11:00 AM
I am having a lot of pain in my left foot over the last 3 days and a doctor came in today and told me the shooting pain in my toes is the nerve doing something. Which is SO exciting! We need the sciatic nerve to work so the left foot will start working correctly again.
-Rachel
07/15/09
To all the friends and family that have been supporting Rachel through this difficult time I thank you one and all. As much as I try to tend to Rachel's needs, it would be an impossible task without the help we have been getting from you all. Rachel really enjoys getting cards and flowers almost every day, it always puts a smile on her face when the delivery guy or I come in with a stack of cards for her. It means the world to her family and I to see that smile again.
For those that don't know, Rachel is being sent home to Mike and Kathy's house until she is able to put weight on her legs. I feel bad for breaking the promise I made to Mike on our wedding day that by going through with the ceremony I agreed that Rachel was indeed my "problem" and was not allowed to live at home anymore. (What can I say, I've always been witty). I am sure that many of you that know Mike have heard "the naked story", and I can tell you that Rachel and I are both praying not to have a repeat of that incident as long as we are there. Thank you all for your love and support, both now and in the future.
Best Wishes- Joe
07/15/09
Don Izen came to visit again and said that sometimes he wants to be able to write back to the blog entries. I have a blackberry so I am getting emails. I am only typing with my left hand so it takes me quite a while to reply. Please feel free to write to me. I will get the email immediately but if I write back, it might only be a sentence or two or maybe only a few words.
Rachelrandazzo@gmail.com
And again make sure to thank Don.
As far as progress nothing has changed. Therapy went well, again sat up for 30 minutes.
Our appeal has been denied. I will be moving into my parents house in the next 24-48 hours. This is a time to be positive. Dad and a crew of guys will be converting the family room into a hospital tonight. Dad has a challenge and you know he works well with new challenges.
We will keep you updated.
I should be transported to Mom and Dad's Friday, July 17th around noon.
-Rachel
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This was 2 weeks after the accident. People said I was sporting the Don King look. |
This is me and Sparky. Aunt Janet gave him to me. I use him for therapy on my broken hand. |
This is Dave and Coco who keep me warm at night. |
07/14/09
Today was a slow day. I had a few visitor and I slept a lot. I had physical therapy but I have not done my exercises on my own yet today, but I will soon. Today I used a cane to move my left foot from the bed onto the floor. Very exciting.
My Rabbi Jacobs brought me a pin today, which I am very excited about. It is a pin for Human Rights. If you don't know, Joe and I studied in London for 3 weeks when we were in college and the course was Human Rights. We learned so much about trafficing and current slavery in the world. Truly eye opening.
I am trying to cut back on one of the pain meds the doctor has ordered, in case our appeal is denied-per the doctors recommendation. Because I need to get used to a different level of pain. And it also impacts constipation.
I have a date tonight with Dana to watch the Sex and the City movie. And I can't wait!
Thanks for checking in. We'll chat tomorrow.
-Rachel
07/13/09
Today was a good day. I am focusing on doing my exercises more often. I did them 3 times today (which is good for me so far.) Maybe 4 tomorrow. Still at Kaiser. No change. Thank you so much for making my room so warm, colorful, and inviting with all of the flowers, stuffed animals, and balloons. They really keep my spirits up. Thanks for checking in! I'll write more tomorrow.
-Rachel
07/12/09
My good friend Don Izen has brought to my attention that he wants to hear more from me. How I'm feeling, my progress everyday, who came to visit, what I did that day, etc. I will be writing to you more often and you can thank Don.
I was released from the hospital Friday to go home. We are protesting the decision and we will know in a couple of days what the decision is for my placement for the next 6 weeks based on our appeal.
My goals: short term goal is to be able to get on the commode. Long term goal is to be able to attend CALR in September.
My thoughts: I am in the process of redefining my life. I always care so much about other people, which is what makes me who I am, but in the process I have let my health take the back seat in my life. I never spent time to "smell the flowers" and often had 3 cups of coffee in the morning. I am committed to my health and wellness and I have already started by quitting smoking which I know makes a lot of you extremely happy. Spending time with my family has always been important and during the last three plus weeks I have come to see I need to spend more time with my friends and the people who really matter. Even if it is a phone call for a few minutes. Keep in touch with the ones who matter because you could be doing everything right and in a heart beat everything can change. Call someone who matters to you.
To my family at work: you guys are more than welcome to come see me. Make sure you knock if the doors closed. I get up around 8:30 and go to sleep around 10. They don't follow the visiting hours, so anytime works. I look forward to seeing you. Sometimes visits are only 10 minutes depending on what's going on.
Don't forget to call someone who matters.
Rachel
07/12/09 1:00 PM
Rachel is still at Woodland Hills Kaiser. All the tubes, staples, stitches and hoses have been removed. She is working hard on her therapy. She can open and flex her right hand (right hand is in a cast.) She can lift her right leg 4 inches and bend her right knee a little. Her left elbow and hand is good. She can lift her left leg 1 inch and her left knee is not quite good to go. She can use the hospital bed to sit up almost all the way.
On a new note. I am sorry to say my dad (83 years young) had a heart attack. He is stable and he is coherent. It was a mild heart attack and things look promising at this point.
Our office has moved to our new location:
7217 GEYSER AVE
RESEDA CA 91335
The repair shop and building shop will work out of our old location:
18401 VANOWEN ST
RESDEA CA 91335
07/09/09 6:00 PM
07/10/09 FRI: H.A.R. IS MOVING TODAY!!
WE WILL BE DOWN TO ONE PHONE LINE!!
PLEASE BUSINESS CALLS ONLY!!!
THANK YOU AGAIN
07/09/09
SORRY NO CHANGE. MAY BE A GOOD THING. HEALING TAKES TIME.
I took a call today from a business associate. He said he has been checking the Internet every day. I had a real hard time talking to him. He is a family guy like me. He said he just wanted to tell me that all I had to do is say HELP and he would be on an airplane. I know now there are hundreds and hundreds of you out there.
THANK YOU
Danny, John, Mark, Chris and the list goes onnnnnnnnnnnn
PS I CONSIDER BUSINESS ASSOCIATES TO BE PERSONAL FRIENDS
07/08/09 4:00 PM
No change, doing exercises. Working on leg lifting. Left leg 1 inch off bed, moving ties some; right leg no lifting, but movement (it will take time.)
07/07/09 4:00 PM
NO CHANGE. We are working on her exercises. She sat up today for 45 minutes, and think we may try to slide on a chair tomorrow.
NOTE:
ALL THAT ATTENDED THE RSIG CONVENTION THIS YEAR, YOUR PRAYERS FOR RACHEL ARE WORKING!!
07/06/09 4:00 PM
I have been telling you we have been waiting for Kaiser to tell us what rehab center she will be going to. I have been telling wrong! She is not going to a rehab center. She is going to a nursing care center because RACHEL IS NOT PERMITTED TO PUT ANY WEIGHT ON HER LEGS FOR 2 MONTHS. The surgery at St. John's Hospital was a reconstruction surgery on her pelvis. When the accident occurred on 06/20/09 her left hip socket went through her pelvis. At the time of the surgery we did not know what the outcome could, and would be!
Kaiser has informed us that at the present time Rachel will stay at Kaiser Woodland Hills for the next 7 weeks. Please understand this is subject to change, but most unlikely. Today she sat up in bed for 30 minutes. She sleeps alot during the day and has physical therapy 2 time per day. It is time for visitors. There are a lot of you out there, so make your visit short so more can come. If she looks tired or the Dr's are there, please LEAVE. With moving our company the month of July I do not have the time to organize you. PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE!!!
As for the flower issue. There are 4 baskets & 2 balloon baskets & 4 hug bears in her room (and they are not small.) The local flower shop is Mr. B's Flowers:
www.mrbsflowers.com
(818)993-1234
Just give them Rachel REITER/Randazzo
If you have a problem, call me at 818-705-4150
By you calling Mr. B's Flowers, they will make the arrangements and bring different ones weekly. If Rachel moves, they will be informed. (HERE IS YOUR TIME TO SHINE AND MAKE ME PROUD TO KNOW ALL OF YOU.)
TO THE CALR BOARD, ALLIED BOARD, EXTREME AUTO RECOVERY, CONCHO RECOVERY, ADVOCAL, FRIENDS, AND FAMILY THAT HAVE SENT ARANGEMENTS, WE LOVE YOU ALL AND THANK YOU.
WHEN A FRIENDS SAYS: I HAVE YOUR BACK, I THINK OF RACHEL'S CLOSEST FRIEND AND MY ADOPTED DAUGHTER DANA (DANA HAS BEEN THERE WHEN WE THOUGHT RACHEL WOULD NOT MAKE IT.)
TO MY DAUGHTER LORRAYNE:
I know you are having a hard time with this.
RACHEL WILL BE BACK AND WHEN SHE DOES, HANG ON FOR THE RIDE OF YOUR LIFE!
Rachel's email to Dad today:
Allied board of directors sent me a care package that's really cute. You have a lot
of people who love us. Sat up for 30 minutes today. They took out the rest of
the staples. I might be at Kaiser for the next 7 weeks if they can't find a
placement for me. Love u
07/05/09
Joe's Mom and Dad went home to New York last night. I'm sure they will be back soon. I say again it was a Godsend to have them here. This morning we had a dear friend come to the hospital, a doctor of psychology, Rachel requested her to visit. After a long session with the doctor, it was pointed out to us that she may experience post traumatic stress disorder. Now that Rachel knows this is a natural phenomenon, she will be better able to cope with this aspect of her injuries. On Monday, July 6th, we will work with Kaiser on placement in a rehab facility.
PLEASE HOLD BACK ON VISITING UNTIL RACHEL GETS TO THE REHAB FACILITY.
PLEASE HOLD BACK ON FLOWERS (she has an abundance of wonderful flowers.)
PLEASE CONTINUE SENDING GET WELL CARDS:
H.A.R. Towing
c/o Rachel Reiter-Randazzo
7217 Geyser Avenue
Reseda, CA 91335
07/04/09
We are working on sitting up in bed. With the July 4th weekend here the hospital has slowed down. Rachel sent me a text message:
Today will be a better day. The Dr says they are still just waiting for a bed at
a nursing care facility. I am having my catheter removed today. They are
concerned about an infection. Hopefully it will be successful. If its not, they
will put it back in.
Todays pledge:
I will not be bitchy but instead grateful. I will not give up when I only sit
up for 10 minutes but be motivated to sit up for 20 minutes. I am committed to
doing my daily exercises 3 times today because no pain is no gain. I will be
nicer to the staff. And most importantly I will not feel sorry for myself. We
will get through this.
07/03/09
NO CHANGES
07/02/09 5:30 PM
FROM RACHEL'S BEDSIDE
First and foremost I need to thank my amazing family. During these times you really do see who your closest friends really are. My guys at the shop have been unexpressibly unbelievable. The way you all pulled together to pray for me by going to Temple in your uniforms last Friday night was one of the biggest blessings I could have ever asked for. It doesn't matter what we believe individually as long as each one of us believe in something. We can come together for one sole purpose of healing one of your good friends (ME).
To all of my friends, thank you for being a huge support to me during this emotional and difficult time. Words do not express what all of you mean to me and Joe as we both try to get through the healing process that will take over the next several months.
The love and support that has surrounded our family is a true testimonial to the amount of love that we all share. The last two weeks have been the most challenging that my family and I have ever faced. Business acquaintances who have supported my parents, who have always been more than business acquaintances, your true colors have been showing through clearly during this challenging time. Thank you for your love and support.
I have more to say, but I'm kinda tired now, and the morphine is kicking in, so I will end with thanking all of you for your love and support.
Talk to you soon, Rachel
FROM MIKE:
BECAUSE OF THE HOLIDAY WEEKEND THERE WILL NOT BE ANOTHER UPDATE UNTIL MONDAY THE 6TH.
July 1st 6:00 p.m.
I stopped looking at rehab centers. The new Dr's at Kaiser are still assesing what to do. Rachel sat up for 15 minutes today. She says the pain is less (still on morphine.) Dr's want to do more testing, things like nerve damage, to determine why no feeling in different parts of her legs and the siatic nerve. They are still looking at the right heel. Some of you may know what foot drop is. The ankle has no feeling so your feet drop down, this is the big one they are looking at.
KEEP PRAYING AND THINK OF THE GOOD THINGS !!!!!!
She is moving her body more, the hospital removed the 10 staples from her left elbow, 40 staples from the left leg, and 20 stables from right arm (THIS IS GOOD FOR HEALING.)
Her color is looking good. She is requesting to the Dr's that she wants to sit up more (sitting up will work when sliding onto a chair.) No update for the next move or what rehab center (they have informed us she needs a certain kind of rehab center.)
Rachel and I had a long talk. One of those father-daughter talks. She asked alot of questions about the accident, her future, her feelings, I think this is a good thing.
I think it is time for some visitors. There is a team that comes in every hour to move her. The Kaiser rooms are small. She can only have 3 people at a time (don't forget JOE-KATHY-JOE'S PARENTS are there ALL DAY.) I get there about 4-5p.m. on!!!!! Joe's parents fly back to New York July 4th in the p.m. (THEY TOO HAVE BEEN A GODSEND, NOT ONLY TO RACHEL, BUT TO ALL OF US.)
Her room is: #4113 building #1 KAISER WOODLAND HILLS
PLEASE ONLY IF YOU MUST, AND ONLY FOR A SHORT TIME. THE PROBLEM IS THERE ARE ALOT OF YOU AND WE DO NOT HAVE THE STAFF TO ORGANIZE OR SET UP A TIME FOR YOU. THERE IS A FAMILY ROOM DOWN THE HALL FROM HER ROOM. ( I HOPE THIS IS NOT A MISTAKE ON MY PART )
WITH MOVING ALL OF OUR COMPANY THE MONTH OF JULY TO OUR NEW BUILDING AND BEING UNDER STAFFED WITHOUT RACHEL, JOE, AND KATHY, WE KEEP IT GOING, BUT IT IS HARD. PLEASE NO PHONE CALLS. BUSINESS CALLS ONLY.
Rachel has requested me to bring the laptop to the hospital. The next update will be from her. It will be posted July 3rd midday.
For the staff and family at www.WebWeaverUSA.com, THANK YOU FOR THE HELP WITH ALL OF THE UPDATES ON THE WEBSITE.
FROM ME TO YOU: IN TIMES LIKE THIS YOU FIND OUT WHO YOUR FAMILY AND TRUE FRIENDS ARE !!!!!
Please hold off the flowers 'til rehab.
Please send Get Well cards to:
H.A.R, Inc.
c/o Rachel
7217 Geyser
Reseda, CA 91335
July 1st 7:00 a.m.
The Dr. advised Rachel should be ready to go to rehab in 2 days. I have a mission today. There are 3 places they have suggested for me to see before she is released. As for her heel surgery, I do not know yet.
Rachel told me to say hello to everyone, and she is looking forward to the flowers when she gets to rehab. She sends her love to all.
June 30th 5:00 p.m.
At Kaiser Hills, transfer went good. She is being reassessed for the next surgery.
PLEASE NO VISITORS!!! YET!!!!!
We need her to rest and work on sitting up and sliding into a chair.
WE WILL NEED YOUR HELP IN REHAB. IT LOOKS LIKE THE PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS ARE STARTING.
June 30th 3:00 p.m.
SHE IS BEING TRANSFERRED TO KAISER WOODLAND HILLS.
Kaiser may be doing surgery on her right heel later today or Wed. July 1st.
After the surgery she will be transferred to the rehab center. The rehab center is in NORTH HILLS.
June 30th 8:00 a.m.
Rachel requested for Kathy to sleep at the hospital last night.
Tues 8:00 a.m. Rachel called me at the office to say, Dad have a good day (she was crying.)
Here is the phone call in Rachel's words:
DAD: why are you crying Rachel, are you in pain?
RACHEL: no
DAD: then you are crying because of the accident.
RACHEL: yes...why me?
DAD: Rachel you are alive, you can think, you must keep the positives, not the negatives. All your family, friends & business relationships you have, relationships that you do not
even know about, expect you to be positive. The accident happened. Please put it behind
you. Take the positive.
RACHEL: THANK YOU DAD.
I wrote this for all of you out there, and there are thousands of you. GRAB ONTO THE POSITIVES!!!
June 29th 2:00 p.m.
YES A GOOD DAY: WE GOT HER TO SIT UP FOR 10 MINUTES.
They have taken her off of the morphine button. If she needs it, they will give it to her. She is on oral pain pills. Later today they will disconnect the main line she has on her neck. No answer from Kaiser yet.
June 29th 8:00 a.m.
It seems Rachel has less pain. She is not pushing the button for the morphine every 15 minutes, more like 1 hour. Dr. said it will take time. She is sleeping more with less pain. Joe said he only had to get up 4 times to help her last night. Her husband Joe is a real trooper. We finally got him to stop shaking after a week. My daughter is truly blessed to have him in her life. THIS MAY BE A GOOD DAY.
June 28th 11:00 a.m.
They tried to have Rachel slide in bed to see if she can sit up ( she really tried, but no go.)
PLEASE NO VISITORS YET. RACHEL IS WORKING HARD AND HAS A LOT OF PAIN. SHE IS WORKING ON GETTING OUT OF THERE. SHE NEEDS TO REST AND HER FAMILY IS THERE. IT IS VERY HARD FOR US TO SEE HER HIS WAY. BUT THERE ARE MANY DR.S AND THERAPISTS WORKING ON THE CASE.
We think she will be released this week some time. The next move will be with KAISER to a rehab center. SHE WILL NEED YOUR SUPPORT AT REHAB. We should know what center this week.
On a good note: FRI night service at the temple was GREAT for all that were there. To see all of H.A.R. staff come together as one. TO ALL OF YOU! YOU MAKE ME PROUD NOT TO BE THE BOSS BUT TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND FAMILY.
June 28th 7:00 a.m.
Her doctor from the pelvis surgery advised Rachel has to work through the pain. They also removed the 2 hose drains from her pelvis.
June 27th 8:00 p.m.
Kathy will spend the night with her.
June 27th noon
They have moved her to a regular room. She is in lots of pain even with the morphine drip.
June 26th 6:30 p.m.
SURGERY OVER ( YES 11 HOURS )
We met with the doctor. Rachel's pelvis has been reconstructed. Per the Dr. she will have to stay in bed for 8 weeks.
PER THE DR. SURGERY WENT WELL.
SHE WILL BE IN ICU FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS, THEN THEY WILL MOVE HER TO A REGULAR ROOM.
The next move will be to have her transported to KAISER rehab center. I am sorry, we do not know what KAISER center yet.
PLEASE NO VISITORS YET!!!!!
She needs her rest. Joe and his parents are here for support.
ALL GET WELL CARDS:
H.A.R. INC.
C/O RACHEL
7217 GEYSER AVE
RESEDA CA 91335
June 26th 4:00 p.m.
Still in surgery, no update.
June 26th 7:15 a.m.
THE HOSPITAL HAD A OPEN SLOT AND SHE IS IN SURGERY!!
THEY SAID IF ALL GOES WELL, THEY MAY BE DONE BY 2 P.M.
YES IF ALL GOES WELL SURGERY WILL TAKE 7 HOURS
June 25th 8:00 p.m.
The surgery is set for 10 a.m. The doctor has said it will be a marathon. He thinks it will be a long day. I will try to get some kind of update for you before the weekend.
FROM MIKE: PLEASE NO MORE FLOWERS. RACHEL IS IN ICU AND THEY DO NOT LET FLOWERS IN. WHEN SHE GETS A LITTLE BIT BETTER AND IN HER REAL ROOM......THEN.........YES.
P.S. Kathy has not been to the office all week and when I am, it puts a smile on my face (kind of fresh smell also.)
June 25th 3:00 p.m.
Rachel is resting. She said she is ready for tomorrow.
For all our family and friends in L.A.:
H.A.R. TOWING
H.A.R. INC.
HOME AUTO REPAIR
WILL BE CLOSING EARLY FRI 06/26/09 ALL OUR STAFF WILL BE AT THE TEMPLE
KOL TIKVAH
20440 VENTURA BLVD.
WOODLAND HILLS CA 91364
7PM - 8PM
June 25th 9:30 a.m.
No change. She is on morphine for the pain. They are just checking and planning for the surgery on Friday.
I would like to take this time to thank all of you. There are no words that can express our sincere gratitude for your support and prayers. We have received many e-mails and phone calls. It is difficult for me to comprehend how many of you we have touched unknowingly. Lorrayne, Kathy and I appreciate the support that you have all given. I have saved all the e-mails. We are planning to move into our new facility July 1st.
Please forward your get well cards to:
H.A.R. Inc.
c/o Rachel Randazzo
7217 Geyser Avenue
Reseda, CA 91335
They will be held there in Rachel's new office for her return.
SHE WILL RETURN
June 24th 7:00 p.m.
Arrived at St. John's Hospital. Rachel is in ICU and the doctors have her stable. The doctors have triaged her and will be doing surgery on Friday.
The surgery will consist of reconstruction of the pelvis on the left and center area. They also found a problem with the sciatic nerve which is causing a concern with her left foot.
Mike
June 24th 5:00 p.m.
Rachel has been transferred to St. John's Hospital in Santa Monica. This hospital works with UCLA Medical Center. They will see what they can do about her broken pelvis on the left side. When the accident occured Rachel shattered the pelvic socket for the left hip.
Mike
June 24th 2:00 p.m.
Had some small problems the hospital had to deal with. They found the right heal was fractured. They are looking into it.
Mike
June 23rd noon
The hospital brought her out of the induced coma. Rachel is alert and talking. The doctors have done all they can do at this hospital. We are waiting for her vital signs to stabilize so she can be moved to the next hospital.
Mike
June 20th 11:30 a.m.
Rachel in her 2007 VW bug traveling 35 mph going east. A ford Taurus traveling west at 35 mph. The man in the Taurus had a heart attack. He passed out at the wheel and turned into Rachel. Per the witnesses, the bug had no time to react.
Mike
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT
June 24, 2009
We would like to thank everybody for their support and wishes for a speedy recovery of Rachel Reiter.
As of yesterday, Rachel has been taken off the ventilator and is breathing on her own. The physicians performed preventive surgery to prevent any blood clots from forming, which would complicate her condition. The biggest issue seems to be the broken pelvis and shattered hip joint which will take major reconstructive surgery. They're transferring her to St. John's Hospital in Santa Monica tomorrow.
Of course this has taken its toll on Mike & Kathy but they reassure us that they are doing fine and want to thank everybody for their wonderful calls and e-mails.
Please remember to contact the family via e-mail only at HARINC@aol.com to allow for urgent phone calls.
Thank you for supporting them in these trying times! We will continue to send updates as things progress.
Your CALR Staff.
FAMILY CALL TO PRAYER
June 23, 2009
Anyone who has been involved with CALR for any length of time, attended a CALR Repo Rodeo, seminar, or convention knows Mike and Kathy Reiter and their daughter Rachel. The Reiter family and HAR, (and more recently under the Recovery Solutions banner) have been long standing members, vendors, and supporters of CALR at virtually every level. I have had the pleasure of getting to know Mike, Kathy, Rachel, and his family during my tenure on the board and consider them among my closest personal friends. It is without reservation that I call upon the CALR family to join me in supporting Mike and Kathy by praying for their daughter Rachel.
Rachel was involved in a head on collision this last weekend and sustained extensive injuries. I spoke with Mike last evening and as he recounted the details it was hard to accept and process the overwhelming emotions involved when loved ones are injured. Rachel is currently at Northridge Hospital Trauma Center undergoing procedures to stabilize her condition enough to allow for helicopter transport to UCLA Medical Center.
Mike welcomes your responses and prayers but asks that you use his e mail address of HARINC@aol.com to allow for urgent phone calls.
Chris Wilson, President
Thank you for your prayers and support. Please check back daily for updates.
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